Oh My! Your like my hair twin. And on top of everything eles I'm using the exact same products as you in the exact same order and my hair of super soft, too soft and limp. Im debating on going back to using shampoo but with no sulfates. I've never really had a problem with dry hair until I started using a lot of heat on it and it became super damaged. So Im gonna wait until my damaged hair has grown out and see where things go from there. Hopefully someone can help us both.