If you hair feels 'too soft' it might be over-conditioned. Maybe try a protein treatment? It seems like protein is the key ingredient here, try upping it or cutting it out all together to find out how you hair reacts to it.
Hair type: 3a (Botticelli)

First DevaCut on 8/10/11 and my hair looks great!

Products:
DevaCurl No Poo
DevaCurl One Condition
Suave EverSleek DT
Still trying to find the perfect styling routine using AnGel, LA Looks Sport, and FOTE AVG.
Just purchased KCCC and excited to test it out!