I think a lot of girls grow out their hair to see if maybe they have that "good hair" and not because they really want kinky frizzy hair.

I am ashamed to admit I thought my hair would be looser because my mom is Puerto Rican and was disappointed that although it isn't really a 'fro, the curls weren't as defined as I expected. I've since through much soul-searching and inspiring photos of natural hair learned to love my own texture and now wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. But it's just hard starting out to simply let go of all the negativity you've heard about frizzy hair.