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Old 10-14-2011, 04:52 PM   #23
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Noticed someone attacked you in that other thread, accusing you of being a "4" in disguise ... the way they did it was completely obnoxious and uncalled for. And I'm sorry if my opinion has you worried that this thread will attract more commentary that is personally attacking or doesn't align with your own view.

But for the record, I've acknowledged that people get to label themselves however they'd like. I've merely added that I find some of what motivates it kind of interesting and at times, sad. Not sure your appeal to censor the thread is the best way to handle your anxiety. Then again, the moderator will obviously step in if it's believed things on this thread will get out of hand.
First, if you are affected by anxiety, please don't project your mental state onto me. That's your issue. Second, it doesn't really matter if this aligns with my views. I'm going to continue to give my opinions when I choose to over and over if I choose. Just as you will continue to say over and over you think some 4s have this issue. That's both of our right.

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If you think "anxiety" was too strong a word for your behavior, Okay. It's just that your plea for the thread to close seemed a little ... drastic; reactionary. At any rate, I see no reason why anyone would get offended by people stating the fact that SOME (not all) type 4s have a "good hair/ bad hair" complex that gets acted out via the typing system. To pretend it doesn't ever happen seems a little disingenuous to me.

I do believe there's an elephant in the room and getting upset when someone points out that elephant is a little puzzling to me.
My "behavior" was typing my opinion of what you said. Since we're characterizing each other's behavior, yours seems to be that of insecurity. How dare these 4s call themselves 3s. How dare they say they have the same type as me. (Yes, that was me being facetious.) Now that's my opinion of people that have one hair type categorizing people of another as having some type of issue. And who are these people with a complex on a curly hair forum. The 4s I see on here all seem to accept their natural curls. Why shouldn't they!? Tightly coiled hair is beautiful! I think you are disingenuous by repeatedly posting about 4s having this complex when it appears that you are the one with the complex. (In other words why be so concerned with what 4s are doing?) Sorry but I'm not in the same room with you so I don't see any elephants.

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