Thanks! Try putting some honey in with your conditioner. About once a week I put a little bit of honey in with my conditioner and let it sit for about 5-10 min. It makes my hair feel so damn soft (for atleast 3-5 days) and it defines my curls. I discovered this when I started putting honey on my scalp to relieve my dry scalp; I think that and just shampooing less and cowashing more has some how helped to make my hair grow faster. That and eating healthier, I've lost 61 lbs. so far.