I haven't had any of these problems withhair one. I am also using wen, I wanted to see if there is a difference between the two. I think there is a slight difference. It is thicker and leaves my hair very curly and soft. The smell is nicer too, so I will be alternating. I get it on ebay. It isn't cheap. I do recommend both products.
Hair type, thin, 3b, past my shoulders always looking for length. Use jessicurl hair cleansing cream, devacurl one c, angel, set it free, Always see a deva trained stylist for cut and Aveda Institute for color.