Cheetara, I did the whole color thing back in the 80's. I soooo wanted to be a Winter. I loved all the colors. I ended up being an Autumn. Now, I see I'm more of a combination of the two. I'm pretty pale, but I have golden/olive tones to my skin and dark hair and light eyes.
I can pretty well wear most colors, except for white and yellow. They both really wash me out. I love a nice, crisp white shirt with jeans, but I have to settle for an ivory instead.
Springcurl, you need to ask your mom if she would say the things she says to you, to a friend. I would think probably not. I'm sure she means well, but you're a grown ass woman and don't need her to critique you.
I think you look awesome and would look good in any color with your coloring. Nice waist!