For sometime now i let go of all heat, and relaxing treatments and my hair is a mess ! to describe my hair is basically really thick and poofy at the crown of my head and then nice type 3-3c curly hair on the right side of my head and then to the left a handful of hair is wavy and somewhat straight which makes it look longer than any other sides of my hair. what should i do? any tips? or styles on how to wear my hair loose tame my hair more at the top?