i know the feeling, and ive noticed th only thing you can do is please your own hair, i research everything before i put it in my hair, and with that i can see if its going to help what its going to do etc. for me thats been the only way i can find stuff out

my hair: 3c, high porosity, high density and coarse hair (i think i finally figured that all out)
my hair loves conditioner only styling!
my hair goal length is bra strap length when curly.

I also blog about my hair journey, please feel free to read and comment/ask questions http://www.naturallycurly.com/blogs/...air-blogs/2494