Is the Burt's bees one not working for you?
The Activate doesn't weigh my hair down. Now low poo and the JC cleansers do. Activate does well for me and creme of nature.
I personally like the Activate conditioner too. Nice slip and conditions well. Now it does have a type of protein in it but it's not wheat protein so my hair is tolerant of it. Just an fyi in case you have problems with proteins