And I don't think anyone is saying anyone does or should think that way.
But I'm sure most people do not have an issue with a woman who has been raped by a man being a little more cautious around men in the future out of self-preservation, and would not call her a "sexist" because of it or say she was stooping to the level of a rapist.
Get used to me. Black, confident, cocky; my name, not yours; my religion, not yours; my goals, my own; get used to me. -Muhammad Ali