Amneris, are you chasin' me? Because, apparently "I runnin' all over the place and ain't nobody chasin' me" and I guess I need someone to chase me!
I understand what you're saying, though. It's a complex topic. If we ourselves can't agree, how can we expect those who don't share our history and experiences to understand? I went and opened my own floodgates anyway! Lol.
And, as much fun as this is, I have something even more fun--a mammogram. So, I'll leave you all to this stimulating conversation. Hope the OP ducks back in sometime soon!