Oh man, that's mine too! I've come a long way in accepting that curly hair is always going to be messy and crazy. But even now when I see a bit of frizz, or a stray hair, or a curl that dried in a weird shape, I go nuts over it. People keep on telling me my 2nd day hair looks so nice, but I just can't believe them, LOL.
Other than that, I want to find an easier and quicker way to manage my hair so I don't have to spend an hour every day blowdrying my hair to get those "perfect" curls.