I don't get that question often these days, but early on, I learned that if I went into a detailed explanation about my regimen with non-naturals (no sulfates, little or no heat, etc), I'd get blank stares or "My hair wouldn't look as good as yours. Mine's too nappy." People actually think that all they need is a special shampoo and or conditioner in order to get spiral curls, pen spring coils or whatever. They don't understand that their hair won't look anything like yours unless they stop relaxing. So my standard answer these days is "I've stopped perming it. This is how my hair grows out of my scalp," and KIM.
Fine haired, low density, highly porous curly kinky lady
Last relaxer: Not sure. 3/08 or 4/08
Co-wash: Suave Naturals, HEHH, Trader Joe's Tea Tree Tingle, CJ Daily Fix
Leave-In: KCKT, Giovanni Direct Leave-In, CJ Smoothing Lotion
Stylers: ORS Twist and Loc Gel, KCCC, Ecostyler, SheaMoisture Deep Treatment Masque
Deep Conditioner: DevaCurl Heaven In Hair, CJ Deep Fix