jeep and kitschy your hair is fabulous! i think the issue is not menopause so much as the gray. my gray is less curly than my colored hair or acts differently. i am using gel again and that helps. yes folks i am 62 and my hair is somewhere around BSL or longer....being a shrink its ok, long gray curly hair is par for the course. no corporate hair or clothing worn here....
Susan suburban NY
3b going gray, not thick, waist length when wet, a bit below shoulders when dry
CG since 11/11/04
HG: suave and honey for co-wash, deva, i use garnier fructis regular CO's or boots pink or white as leave ins and LA looks sport gel. plop w microfiber turban, then curl towel scrunch, then another turban.i sleep with the turban on. little one minute hair styling videos http://www.youtube.com/user/lazycurls