Well..there's a few things.
One of the most annoying things that people used to ask my mom when I was younger was "Is her hair natural? Does she have a perm or something?" Umm....NO. People don't perm their 5 year old daughter's hair. And I know it's not really mean or anything, but everybody always asks me if my hair is "naturally like that." ALL THE TIME. It's really annoying! And then there was that lady in the mall...she was selling flat irons or something and just bugged me and my mom non stop until we got quite far away from her about straightening my hair. She was like "can I please straighten her hair? It would look so pretty!" Right. And I was quite small at the time, I can't quite remember how old I was.
But, on the other hand, one lady at youth told me she loved my hair and "the curls are just so perfect!" And I really didn't think it looked that great that day. It was 3rd day hair, and I hadn't really done much to it that day. And there really are more nice things said about my hair than annoying.