Have you tried any gels to weigh your curls down? Kinky Curly Curly Custard really weighed my curls down and smoothed them out. When it dried I had no frizz. Unfortunately it broke me out so i had to switch to the blue ecostyler. As for how you sleep, have you tried pineappling and the putting on a satin cap? That is the key to multiple-day hair for me. In the morning i just let the steam from the shower plump any flattened curls.

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“Mama says pretty comes in all different sizes. And my size… is cute!” -Honey Boo Boo