Hi - just wanted to say that I started about 2 months ago and I understand your frustration as I have been having the same problem - frizzy, undefined flat hair and with pricey products. Things turned around pretty radically in the past week when, thanks to a forum member, I realized I was using way too much product.
Also, there was a video I saw by mysteryflavor maybe? about applying kccc. I realized I was applying my gels wrong, besides just using way too much. I'm now finally seeing results. Just wanted to give you some encouragement.