I finally found one I like: Nars Sheer Matte. I use the Sheer Glow on parts that I want to have a dewy finish and the Sheer Matte on the rest. It's very expensive but a tiny amount goes a looonnnggg way so I think it will last for years. I was able to test the colors at Sephora.
The reason I picked Nars is that the color match was perfect. Nars has a large color selection.
Thanks for all the responses!!!
2/c and some 3A. Modified CG.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Super Soaker
Conditioners: Curl Junkie Beauticurls Strengthening Conditioner,
Deep condish: Curl Junkie Curl Rehab
Stylers: Experimenting with cones & sulfates while the dews are high. Sometimes try roller sets - classic glamor but I prefer my curls.
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