I loathe those people! They are presumptuous and judgmental about our hair and I find that so rude - when I told a guy at the shopping centre that I was happy with my curly hair and loved it he said 'REALLY?' in a very snooty way that made me want to take his straighteners and shove them where the sun don't shine
44 year old owner of 2c/3a M ii med porosity hair (I think!). Finer, curlier and frizzier canopy with thicker, silkier and less wavy hair underneath towards the back. Based in UK.