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Join Date: Apr 2008
In regards to mothers of 1 child - was it your choice to only have one child or were there other factors involved?
(Marah, you posted that you had reproductive problems, but if that wasn't an issue, would you have had more?)
The reason I ask is that right now hubby & I have a 20-month old, with talk about fostering/adoption
but in the future
While talking about it the other night, I had to level with my husband and tell him that I'm simply not ready for another child right now, and I'm not sure when I will be ready. Although I reserve the right to change my mind, at this point in time, on Friday, January 20, 2012, I actually don't want any more children.
I hope that doesn't make me sound selfish. But I always said I didn't want any more children than I can afford... not just monetarily
but most importantly, emotionally
. I believe financially we can handle it, but I'm afraid that I don't have the emotional capability to "share" myself with another child right now. I would hate to bring another child into this world (or our home) and he or she feel unloved or unwanted.
Ah... I'm rambling so maybe I should stop right here. But to recap: to the mothers of just 1 child, what was your reasoning?