So I tried out the coil jam again, by itself. And it worked much better this time alone! I used more than I did last time, and my hair did not end up being weighed down and didn't take forever to dry. My curls came out pretty good looking this time, but it still doesn't do anything to control my frizz (my hair gets extremely frizzy no matter what!) and doesn't give me any hold, so my second day hair didn't end up coming out very great. But I'm going to try it with a hard hold gel and see how it works with that. But I'm glad I got the coil jam to work and it won't go to waste now.
But it seems like the satin roots was just giving me problems, I'm not sure if it's just too conditioning/moisturizing for my hair or what..