VO5 works well as a COwash. You've already mentioned SN and TN. Umm...I've used Renpure Organics for a COwash and a RO. I've paired it with my conditioning blam (bioinfusion conditioning balm). I got both at Walgreens. I've seen L'oreal Vive in some siggies (I think) or listed on the CG list of products. I would double check just to be sure. You could also use a different GF conditioner. I really want to get the Pure Clean, but I already have a bunch of conditioners I need to use up first. I also think several CGs use Aussie conditioners and Herbel Essence. I hope this helps.
CG as of Feb. 2012
combination hair.
2c on top - low elasticity
3a&b scattered underneath - normal elasticity.
fine texture. thin density. A lot of it.
porosity: normal to high.
loves protein and moisture.
BSACV as needed.

products may vary. i'm a PJ.
loving Curl Junkie, Curly Kinks, and AS I Am.