I don't know how to close this topic but I'd like to thank everyone for the replies. I have found my staples for now and finished the Shea moisture without problem by mixing it with kckt. People said not to mix it but w.e it worked for me. Water and glycerin has worded wonders with definition and moisture. I seal everything with raw Shea butter. I actually stopped using coconut oil til the summer. I don't know why it didn't click in my head that if it hardens when cool it would harden on my hair lol thank you ladies and you helped a lot my hair loves heavy creams. Uhmmm Yea