Addressing your post by the bolded:
Bolded #1: I never referred to you pm'ing me or vice versa. My OP about the matter referred to people PM'ing any poster about being offended or hurt about something they said on the board.
Bolded #2: I think you (and some others) read my posts as snarky when there is no snark intended. And that's not all the time either - sometimes yes, I'm snarky, yup. But last night? Nope, no snark there. If you take it another way, there's nothing I can do for you. There have been times on this board where I have played things out in my head as playful, but isn't taken like that because I'm not a "vet" and people don't "know" me, and I've also seen people say things that I know would get REAMED if a "newbie" said it. For a fact. That's the nature of the boards (not just this board, any online forum). I get that. Oh well.
Bolded #3: This is pure childishness. If other people think that about me, that's cool, but don't reference private cosigners in your posts. I've never done that to you and I could say the same. Be a woman and stand by your own opinion.
Bolded #4: I understand you, and this board, better than a majority of you think I do. And I'll leave that at that.
Bolded #5: I have certain perceptions of you as well, and at the end of the day, it doesn't matter. Like you said, we are only on the internet. I would never wish you or your family ill will without even ever speaking to you over the phone or you doing me some massive, great wrong. That's some ****ty ****, I don't roll like that.