I don't know your hair type, but knowing your hair properties (porosity, strand thickness e.t.c) would be more useful .
I believe your hair would fall eventually.
Since your hair craves moisture like mine , after washing and conditioning , you should follow up with a leave-in conditioner or try using your rinse out conditioner (applying it from mid shaft to ends bt not on your scalp, so it doesn't get greasy )
Many curlies here use their regular conditioner e.g tresemme naturals moisturizing conditioner ( you could try this if you don't already use it )
Another step that could help if the above doesn't quite do it is , SEALING . You could add a light oil e.g almond oil just to your ends to seal in the moisture , hence the term .