I haven't noticed it (it's been a really, really long time since I've been with someone under 30) but could see it being an issue.
I don't know if it's so much a porn issue (can you really take it that seriously?? I guess if they have little other experience) though, or just that the younger generation expect everything to just come easily. No pun intended
I do a lot of work with people in their 20's and so many expect things to just be handed to them. Whether it be a great paying job, nice home, higher end furniture, top of the line electronics. I could easily see that be the case with sex as well.
I was talking to a guy a few weeks ago who was complaining he couldn't find a job. I suggested McDonald's, Tim Horton's and WalMart. He told me they would only pay minimum wage ($10.25) and he was worth more then that. No you're not! You're 20 years old and have no experience anywhere...you are not worth more then that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I also wonder if some young women are doing that stuff, so they expect it from all? A few friends daughters have talked to me about sex and it blows me away with what they are doing. I had sex pretty early (15), but didn't really try much other stuff (can't think of a better term
) until I was well into my 20's. What these girls are doing (or at least claiming to be, or know people that are) makes me speechless. Another friends son (16) has told me that he stopped hanging out with certain girls because they were constantly trying to get him to do things with them.
Sorry...they went off track of where I was headed