Card carrying member of Gen X here, and also a lady who does not mind watching a little porn herself. I've dated/slept with men (all mbrs of Gen X except 1) who have had problems distinguishing porn from reality and others who have not. I dated a guy with a porn addiction, but not a porn affliction. He had to watch it to become aroused, but was actually a very considerate lover. I was offended at first but later found out this was typical for him, in every fling or relationship. I dated another guy who despised porn, refused to watch it, and he was the most inconsiderate, disrespectful and forceful lover of all. Another had no problems in the bedroom but expected women to look as if they just stepped out of a porn. He wanted me to lay in a tanning bed and straighten my hair everyday. He often referred to porn stars as "top quality models". Um, no. The (upper end of) Gen. Y guy... HELLO!! He could have taught everyone else a thing or 12. IME, it depends on the guy.
After discovering the porn star James Deen (also known as the feminists porn star), I think every woman needs to hand out his stuff to potential lovers. Not his fetish stuff mind you, unless... but the "how to please women" films he participates in. Watch and learn fella's! Watch and learn!
When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??
Last edited by Fifi.G; 04-28-2012 at 12:58 AM.