During an assembly in grade school, I felt something touch my hair. When I turned to look, the boy who had felt my hair was very embarrassed. He thought he had touched it gently enough that I wouldn't feel it. Then he said, "I just wanted to see what it felt like." "Well, what did it feel like?" "Hair." "And what did you expect?" "Well it looks so wiry." In his defense, at this time my hair was always a huge frizz ball, and we were probably 10 years old.
Experimenting with too many products to name here. All this great info keeps my head spinning.