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Old 05-01-2012, 08:20 AM   #1126
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Originally Posted by diaspora View Post
So I went out with a new guy from OkC last night. I can tell already that I feel a friend vibe for him but nothing more (he's smaller than me, and I'm pretty small, and some other physical stuff I just can't get down with). Thing is, he already planned to introduce me to his friend who DJs and is looking for other DJs to sub for him (I DJ too). I'm supposed to meet the OkC guy at the bar where his friend DJs tomorrow so we can meet. I guess I'm a little nervous because the guy made it clear he's interested in continuing to date, and I haven't said anything yet, and I hope that when I do (tomorrow) it won't affect my potential new gig/professional relationship with his friend. It's not rude of me to go ahead and see about the gig is it?

That's tricky but I think you're OK. You haven't lied to him and there are no guarantees when it comes to dating, esp not online dating. People have to be prepared for some/most encounters not to be love connections.

But that's great news. I hope the mtg goes well!
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