Before I was CG, a co-worker/"friend" told me several times "You really should get a Brazillian (blow out)" when I was going through my hair anxiety. This is after I had repeatedly said I hate my hair straight and would never do a Brazillian.
Same person also told me later that the repeated blowouts have destroyed her curls. WTH?!?
I stopped talking to her about my hair. Duh.