me (obsessing about my hair like normal): I like how my curls turned out today, but I wish I could make the top lay nicer

coworker: curly hair is supposed to be messy

a week later with the same coworker, the second I walk into work

coworker: how much crap did you put on your hair today
me: huh?
coworker: I bet you spend more on the stuff you put in your hair than what you put in your stomach
me: huh?

she has straight hair (obviously) but I feel very badly for her daughter with beautiful curly hair. She said her daughter grew out of her curls the last time she got it cut... I'm not sure I believe her