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Old 05-15-2012, 11:37 AM   #1
Lotsawaves
 
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Default I'm Torn.....About a Man

I've been dating a man for the past 3 weeks. He is wonderful to me, yet he is suffocating me and moving too fast. I will list the pros and cons and I'd appreciate your opinions.

Pros.....

Loves to dance and he is taking dance classes with me.
Loves to cook and we are signed up for some cooking lessons together.
He never comes over empty handed. He brings me flowers, wine, food, etc.
He takes me out a lot.
He is very spiritual.

Cons......

He can't keep off me. He's always draped around me and kissing me. He doesn't care where we are.
He's already said he loves me and wants to marry me.
He stares at me and sighs a lot.
He calls me baby over and over again.
He calls me every night.
He wants us to start traveling together.
He is an attractive man, but not really my type physically.

I think possibly if I was more attracted to him the cons wouldn't bother me so much. I'm not sure. I'm not a real touchy feely person and I like to take things slow. He is out of town on business and will be gone 10 days so I get a break, but I also feel I need to break it off, but I'm not sure how to word it to him without hurting him. Help?
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