subbrock, i think you may have misunderstood what i was saying when i said that. my point was that everyone
has different hair no matter what their ethnicity is. Therfore a "white" mother isn't neglectful to her childre just because of the colour of her skin. As you said, you're children do not have the same hair as you or each other either, which only proves what i was trying to say (may not have explained it properly though).
Please note too, i wasn't having a go at anyone other than the people that keep making these ignorant and hurtful comments (not on here but on other sites).