I feel ya! I really hate that about curly hair. Although, I've found that since I started CG, even if the wind gets hold of the curls a bit, it's not nearly as bad as it used to be!

(As a sidenote, Brown&Curly, your link doesn't work. )
I have very fine 3A hair!
My Home Page: http://www.nookra.com
My Curls: http://flickr.com/photos/entipy/sets/72157594546464041/