I've been lurking for a while and finally decided to register and post, mostly to vent right now...

I've been transitioning for about 6 months so I still have some relaxed ends. I'd wear bantu knot outs and braidouts to work and they looked great.

So I thought...

So one day one of the assistant managers comes up to me and says "girl your hair looks a mess!" and I told her it's probably just frizzy and told her I was transitioning. Then she goes on and starts telling me I need to "blow dry it, put a comb through it and a flat iron" and I tried to explain to her that its bad for your hair and that's what I'm trying to get away from now, and she was just incredibly rude about it. Now every day she has something to say about my hair. I'm about to BC in a few minutes and if she says something about it when I come in tomorrow morning I just might come home without a job. ugh.