oh i do this too!! i got 3c tight curls that really like to show the world how crazy i can look with out doing anything. which my bf LOVES when my hair is nice and big and crazy.
after my shower i use my normal condish as a leave in. i mix it with oil in the palm of my hand n just work it through. it does take awhile for my hair to dry but a few times during the drying prosses i tip my hair upside down and just shake it side to side a bit. i dont tough it when i do this, it just gives my curls more "lift" and defines them better. i think i do this 3 times till its dry.