My grandmother has favourites. I don't think she likes my aunt very much.
Today I went to pizza hut and brought home lasgana. Instead of eating it, I gave it my grandmom who happens to be sitting with my aunt. So I say to her, "if my aunt wants some you should share." Her response was, "oh, we should leave some for your mom, she likes these kinds of things." I walked off. My aunt is here, right now. You still down and mumble about how much she struggles to make ends meet and yet your refuse to share the food?
This is another reason I don't want to have kids. My mother and grandmother were verbally abusive when I was a child, and I refuse to pass on any of those nasty habits to my child/ren.