You can go as heavy handed as you want until you achieve the desired look. Just trial & error. You just might have to wash a few times a week if you don't already. Plus to refresh your hair the day after you try, re-wet it. A trick I use to get the wet look sometimes is conditioner style & then use a few spritz of my honey holding spray instead of gel to minimize frizz & keep it from shrinking.
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