[QUOTE=The New Black;1974114]Not to my knowledge. But now I wonder.
Before we separated about 5.5 years ago, I caught him masturbating once to porn. Then I checked our cable bill and saw he was spending hundreds per month on TV porn. All the while our sex life was nonexistent. I didn't feel that was cheating, per se, but still an(other) obvious attempt to "get off" without me.[/QUOTe
Thats cheating too. You know first hand how porn can cause a lot of heartache in a marriage! A lot of men don't get it, but their wives do. It hurts! I'm so sorry!