Kitschy, you are so right about how everyone's idea of the perfect curl is different. I have been cursed with the perfectionist type personality and want nothing but frizz-free curls because I was made fun of in school about my hair. That was a long time ago and I had no idea how to take care of it, so it got brushed when it was dry. I need to get over those hurtful words and embrace what God has given me. My mom used to try and tell me, "People pay a lot of money to get their hair to stay like yours." The grass looked so much greener, I wanted shiny, straight hair like all of the "pretty" girls had.
Your hair is absolutely stunning and you are an inspiration to me