I was having a bit of the same problem. I found it was the Shea moisture hair milk. The protein in it was too much for me. It's got more protein then the CES and sometimes that's too much for me too. Try cutting out the milk for a week or 2 for something else and see what happens.

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- Lexcoupe

Hair type 3C/4A
Last Relaxer 10/10
BC 5/1/11
Porosity- Normal to High
Currently
Co-Wash - TN, AM
Poo - SM MR
LI - Giovanni SAS; Almost anything Curl Junkie
Styler And even more Curl Junkie; Mixed Chicks
Gelly - Umm, did I mention Curl Junkie?