I have experienced the same things , Mzshvy. It happened to me ALL THE TIME when I was younger. Occasionally now someone will make a flip comment. But I do notice that the people who do it most often are out of shape and unhappy with their own bodies. I think it is only fair that they be told something in return:
"Do you eat?"
Yes...but not as much as *you*, obviously
"How'd you'd get so skinny?'
By doing whatever it is you'e not doing
"You need to gain ten pounds"
Great. Can I take that huge slab hanging off your back?
Cruel? Yes. But I never hear any more lip. Who gives these people the right to criticize the way *I* look? I've seen many many big women who are just drop dead gorgeous. You are not gonna telll me I can't consider myself attractive cause I don't fit your physical specifications. And that isn't even in response to the original creator of this thread--just my 2 cents in general.
"Don't play me...I'm over 30, and I don't smoke weed"