I'm 21 and I met my boyfriend at a party and we were both drinking with friends. We hit it off right away, hung almost the whole night talking and have been together since for almost 3 years. He evwn used tp hang out with a rowdy group of friends and now he never talks to them and this happened in a matter of months. We are best friends and very in love. I really do think good men exist, and it can happen anywhere. My Guy spends every night with me and all his time pretty much and just makes me feel so loved. He's attentive and affectionate and he has his manly tough side. If you can find a Guy who will tell you he loves you every day more than once and if he's always there, never cheats and you love him then there's your good man, ignore all his other "flaws"..