Jojoba "Oil" is not an oil but rather a liquid wax. I agree that I would think your hair would like coconut oil, but I do not really know why it does not.
I've heard good things about sweet almond oil.
I don't use too much oil as a 'low porosity protein sensitive' because in essence the hair shaft is 'sealed', and the battle is to get moisture in.
I hope someone else can chime in.
3A, Protein Senitive, Low Porosity,
Wash: Suave Naturals Conds (excluding Coconut), CVSB
Rinse out/Leave In: GVP Cond. Balm, KCKT,
Style: Naturelle Gel(winter HG), KCCC (summer HG), Flaxseed gel
Love your hair: Love yourself!