Everyone here considers someone a troll if they make a comment or thread that is usually against popular opinion here.
Anyway, I agree with you and I understand what the OP meant. Texturizing my hair DID make me love my hair because I realized that although my hair was chemically treated, it looked exactly the same with a little less shrinkage. In return, I learned to love my hair and did another BC because my hair eventually ended up damaged (not due to the texturizer, but for other reasons). But texturizing did make me realize that I loved and appreciated my hair when I did not before. If it takes someone two, three, four or seven BCs to get to that point, then who cares?