I don't care if you or anyone else disagrees with me. It's a matter of respect for others' opinions. People make their own choices and learn from them. You've made yours. Maybe one day you'll look back and think, "I really wish I would have found someone to share all of those experiences with." Maybe you'll feel envy for those who have a "settled" life in 10 years. Maybe you won't. Whatever. No one's pooping all over your party. You can express and do whatever you want, but to say you feel bad for someone who isn't looking for sympathy is, as someone else said, pretty arrogant.