I absolutely love that lace dress you ordered - very much my style, though I don't think I have as much of the wowza figure to look so good in it!
My problem with "shapers" is they are always loose in my waist and too tight elsewhere. They seem to try to turn me into a shapeless sausage instead of actually smoothing/shaping. I've tried various brands at various price points with the same problem.
The pews never miss a sermon but that doesn't get them one step closer to Heaven.
But at least the pews never attend yoga!