straightening your hair that much is actually damaging.. the only way to make your hair grow out faster is if you stop damaging it. and also when do you trim? every month? you could just be cutting off your growth try trimming once every 3-4 months
you cant force your hair to get the looser curls and maybe the best way is using henna to loosen it a bit but i cant help you with henna cause idk how to use it, i hope i helped alittle
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