Ladies, I never said he has ever called me unattractive nor did I say that he hates my hair. I stated that he prefers it when it's straight. The rest of the assumptions were made because of the comments to and from each other, not from my original post. He tells me often, even when I am wearing my curls, that he thinks I'm beautiful. I just stated that because he doesn't like my curls so much, it makes me feel bad.

I said that it makes ME FEEL unattractive because he's said that he thinks I look better with straight hair. I think I do, too, because of my bone structure, softer hair tends to soften my features. I'm Native American and inherited the larger nose. This is something I have heard my whole life, it's nothing new.

Thank you for all of the responses, however it was never intended that anyone should insult my fiance, because he has never called me unattractive. I think some people may have read too much into it and taken it too deeply into an office

I was just curious if any of the other curlies had ever experienced anything similar. I wasn't looking for insults or for anyone to make this post much, much more than it was. Thank you for the responses.